A Weight Lifted Off My Shoulder

What does love mean?

In simple definitions it means a lot of different things.

A romantic attraction, to have strong feelings of affection for someone, combined with sexual attraction.

To care about someone, especially a member of your family or a close friend.

Like and enjoy, to like something very much or enjoy doing something very much.

Loyalty, to have a strong feeling of loyalty towards something.

For many, a wife describing her love for another man is a betrayal to the husband. That is not the case with me. Her telling me is a sign of trust and intimacy. My wife and I have always been more than just husband and wife. We are also often like two girlfriends or BFFs. I am someone she can always talk to, even about things that may be painful for her husband to hear.

It was probably hard for her to tell me she told another man she loves him. Not knowing how I would feel about it. If it would hurt me. Especially for her when it changes nothing about how she feels about me. She still loves me and is very connected to me. I am the love of her life.

A Soulmate is a person with whom you have an immediate connection the moment you meet. A connection so strong that you are drawn to them in a way you have never experienced before. As this connection develops over time, you experience love so deep, strong and complex, that you begin to doubt that you have ever truly loved anyone prior.

Your soulmate understands and connects with you every way and on every level, which brings a sense of peace, calmness, and happiness when you are around them.

It is because of this when my wife told me she told another man she loves him. It was like a weight lifted off my shoulders. All the anxiety I have been feeling the past year has calmed and I feel a sense of peace. A new level of happiness being in her presence. As well as the cuckold arousal.

Why?

Months and months I have worried that she was falling for him. When she finally came out and said she told him and that she feels it for him, it was almost a sense of relief. Like finally, she’s really telling me what’s going on and somehow that has brought us closer together.

Before she would describe the subduction and sex. Which I love! Now we can talk about the sex but also talk more about her emotions, her feelings, the kind of things women share with their close girlfriends but not with their husbands. It allows me to be more happy emotionally about their relationship.

The last few days have been amazing. I feel so close to her. Our love talk has been erotic and real. I laid in bed with my hand on her perfect little bare ass cheek and I felt loved and it reminded me that I love her more than anything.

I am also such a cuckold!!!! I am already encouraging her to go see him again. Asking if they have planned their next night together. Thinking about how people must think what an attractive couple they are when they are out. I’m good looking, but he is more the stereotypical GQ alpha square face dreamy guy.

I have known she has a romantic attraction, strong feelings of affection for him as well as sexual attraction. Maybe that is all her telling him she loves him means? Possibly it means more?

It does not have to mean she is going to divorce me and run off with him.

Falling in love is an amazing feeling. That new relationship energy.

Us falling in love changed our life. I have always described her as my soulmate.

In monogamous society we are taught you can only love one person.

That is not true, we platonically love many people. We care for friends, our parents, children and other people close to us in life.

It makes little sense that you can only care for one intimate partner. I don’t feel my wife’s love for me is cheapened or diluted by her having this other relationship. How she loves me is different. We have a commitment to each-other through love, marriage, having a home together and children. A strong deep love and connection for eachother.

We are happily in love, and happily married.

Her telling him she loves him certainly does not mean he is replacing me. It means she has a romantic attraction, and strong feelings of affection for him, combined with sexual attraction. It also means she cares about him and likes and enjoys when she can spend time with him. Loves to talk to him and go spend time with him.

I have always enjoyed sharing my wife sexually with other men. She has fucked many more men since she married than when she was single, and this contributes to our amazing sex life and sexual fulfillment. This is a new step in our open marriage that excites me and arouses me because of all the reasons she is my soulmate.