Out of all the kinky shit I have experimented with sexually exploring my girly boy side with my wife has been the most rewarding.
It has made me look at myself differently, I can still be the macho strong male at the gym and the soft loving sexual girly boy. How do I look at myself differently? I have always been confident in myself, my looks, my physical abilities, including pleasuring my wife yes even packing a smaller package :). I just now feel more content.
I also look at my sexual kinks as more of a positive part of who I am not as something to be ashamed of or to humiliate. Something to embrace and enjoy with myself and my wife. Overall I guess it has just allowed me to better just enjoy myself sexually.