
I’ve never looked at pussy licking as a submissive act. Looking back on my sexual past there are two things that come to mind with clarity today that I never thought about then. I have always loved to lick pussy and it has never bothered me that women I was with had sexual relationships with other men at the same time.
I always figured all men love to lick pussy, it is part of sex, foreplay and a great way to make a woman have a mind-blowing orgasm. Looking back though, I now understand I may have and do have an extra enthusiasm for worshipping pussy with my mouth. I can always make a woman orgasm with my tongue. That is the ultimate reward for me because I like giving pleasure and I love watching a woman orgasm.
It occurred to me this morning that in college I actually had sever girls I would see fairly regularly which this was the only sexual act outside of kissing we would do. I would spend an evening bringing them to multiple orgasms with my tongue and my fingers. We would not have sex, they would not orally pleasure me. I never thought of it as strange, never questioned it. Of course I would try to have sex with them but they always denied it. I guess I just assumed they either never had sex before or wanted a more serious relationship before having a sexual one. Like I said I never questioned it then and always left happy and sexually fulfilled.
There was three sorority girls who often would have me lick them to orgasm at the end of a drunken night. Not at the same time, but they were friends and must have known, is it even possible they discussed it? Again I was always fine not having sex with them.
I did have plenty of sex in college but thinking back there was a lot more time spent licking pussy. I had a roommate that cheated on her boyfriend with me. I did have sex with her too. She told me I was the only one who could make her orgasm. So she would come into my room late at night, I would happily worship her unfaithful pussy for as long as it took for her to have several orgasms then I would finish by having sex with her and having my own.
I have shared with my wife that I had a short period where I paid for erotic massages which are massages with happy endings. Even then the girl I hired would sit on my face and I would bring her to multiple orgasms!!!!! She would not have sex with me and could typically get me to cum fairly fast by rubbing me off. So I actually paid to lick pussy……. How crazy is that?
This all just occurred to me this morning in the shower. Not sure why I was thinking about my sexual past, the first thought was how much I enjoy worshipping my wife’s pussy so much. Then I started thinking about being submissive and wondering if sexually I have always have been in some way? Did all these women know I have a below average cock? or were there other reasons they only wanted me to orally pleasure them such as wanting a more serious relationship I was not ready to commit to as a young adult?
I will never know and either answer is fine for me. Again I never looked at licking pussy as submissive. I actually always thought I was pretty sexually dominant. I also never thought about the reasons I became so good at oral sex, or that I was so naturally inclined to do it. There is nothing greater than brining pleasure to a woman.
Today this is all in my past. I am married to the most perfect sexy woman in the world who I love with all my heart. Like in my past though I am obsessed with licking her pussy and ass. I also love having sex with her but there is no misunderstanding I can make her orgasm both ways but she always cums harder on my tongue and she always cums harder with a bigger cock inside of her!
Funny though sexual thoughts I have.